Date With Confidence - Join The 28 Day Challenge Waitlist!


Hi Reader

You're invited to join our 28 day group challenge!

This will take you from dating confusion, to feeling clear and confident in what your values, boundaries and non-negotiables are.

Move on from negative relationship experiences and walk into your best relationship yet.


Early Success


One of our community members trialled the exercises and had this to say:
"I loved it! If only I'd have done this 6 months ago it would have saved me a lot of heartache."


Before the exercises she found herself dating people who would switch their story on what they were looking for, tell her what she wanted to hear but not follow through and leave her feeling confused and frustrated.

They would do just enough to keep her interested, but not commit.

After doing the challenge she noticed that a guy she was dating wasn't living up to his words. Instead of falling into old patterns of overthinking, she trusted her clarity and directly asked him about his commitment level.

He admitted he could only do something casual – so she ended it to focus on finding what she truly wanted: a long-term partner.

This was the first time she had actively chosen herself. She saved herself months of confusion!

Her dating confidence had skyrocketed and she felt empowered to make healthier decisions.


How It Can Help You

Whether you've attended some of our coffee sessions or not, you too can move from dating uncertainty to dating confidence.

Dating from a place of fear can look like:

  • Overthinking why they take so long to reply
  • Wondering what their intentions are (even after two months)
  • Letting your boundaries get pushed again and again
  • Feeling confused by mixed messages
  • Prioritising their needs above your own
  • Avoiding tough questions in case it scares them off
  • Telling yourself "all the good ones are taken" or "I'm too old to meet someone"
  • Dating "fixer uppers" or "takers" who don't match your effort
  • Making excuses for their bad behaviour


Dating from a place of confidence can look like:

  • Asking the important questions without hesitation
  • Focusing on whether they're a good match for you (rather than trying to please them)
  • Trusting your gut and acting on it when something feels off
  • Speaking up about your boundaries and walking away when they're disrespected
  • Saying "no" to situations or people that don't align with your needs
  • Spotting red flags early and not ignoring them
  • Spotting green flags based on your values and prioritising them for dating


What You Should Expect

The challenge will be a series of live video calls, one a week for 5 weeks, covering transformational exercises you can do in your own time to give you clarity and confidence in dating. No more second guessing yourself.

Real work, real reflection, real eureka moments.

It will be hosted by yours truly and Relationship Coach, Ash Hall.

  • Gain clarity on your values, boundaries, and past relationship lessons
  • Build confidence in what you need for a healthy future relationship
  • Discover your non-negotiables and stand firm in them


Join the waitlist
for more information by leaving your name and email address via the button below. Start date TBC.

Looking forward to seeing you soon.

Sam


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